There’s sex work, webcamming doesn’t hold the best reputation. It’s often seen as exploitation or a last-resort hustle to settle debt, but Reed Amber, 26, explains how webcam models are only your average self-employed freelancers with the exact same volume of agency and independence as anyone else.

Model, producer and co-creator of YouTube channel ComeCurious, Reed is actually the physical embodiment of sex positivity, which she defines as “trying to make people think that what they’re doing as well as what they’re into isn’t wrong, it’s normal and it’s absolutely fine.” She’s a tremendous advocate for removing stigma and taboos around sex, and that we swept up together with her to understand more about webcamming, a distinctive line of sex work that’s seldom brought up.

Exactly why do you think some men, and probably women at the same time, prefer it to porn?
“There’s a lot free porn that I feel webcamming is more of your personal one-on-one. It is possible to search online and discover any ol’ stuff, but webcamming is a lot more personal; it’s tailored exactly to what you would like and what you’re looking for. You’re not sharing it with 100 thousand others. This is your show. Quite often you build up a relationship, I talk with you as being a friend and i also respect you as being a person. ‘How has your day been, what would you get from the shops, exactly what are you cooking for dinner…’ it’s such as an online relationship”

…So it’s kind of like the ‘girlfriend experience’?
“Yes, it’s very much like the girlfriend experience. But that also is dependent upon what are the webcam model is much like and also just what the person paying is like because everybody wants different things.”

Maybe you have had say no to a request?
“I’m definitely one with the cam girls who almost never refuse. I’ve always wanted to try something totally new, but that’s not since i felt like I had to. It’s just personally a few things i wish to accomplish. I must tick stuff off my list, I want to you must do everything once especially when looking at sex positivity. Even if it’s something I’m certainly not into, I’d still have a go. Only didn’t want it, I’d resemble ‘sorry, I’m not really into that.’ But there’s lots of people that might say no to a lot of things.”

Any kind of really common requests that you get?
“It depends on the profile which you set up because once you create a profile, you’re posting a little bio of you, and my bio could possibly be seen as an somewhat more ‘out there’. I’m open to anything, like roleplay, so much of the time I get roleplay requests, more just because I have found them fun no matter how unusual or bizarre they’re. What excites me are uncommon and weird requests that you simply wouldn’t really come across. Life’s too boring otherwise”

How do people react if you inform them all you do?
“I obtain a combination of emotions. Mostly people react positively with the way I take a look at it. It’s so different if you’re really shy and timid and quiet over it. It immediately gives off this concept of ‘oh they’re not completely at ease with it.’

Basically you get to turn out to be sex-positive self to your full potential…
“Exactly! That’s where I got my first taste of sex positivity. Going through my relationships on and on to university I became like ‘woah, nobody thinks generate income do, I’ve got to be weird’. But being a webcam model, I realised everybody is into something more important, they merely feel like they can’t discuss it.”

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